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Where in state law or any documents related to the law does it state that the mother is going to get 85% custody? 

It doesn't state anywhere that either parent will. It doesn't state a starting point because that would violate the law. When not influenced by corruption, the court tries to provide the child with the same contact as during the marriage. Consider this, they claimed they wanted to change the law. They claimed corruption and bias, but they have been unable to show it exists. Until you identify the corruption and how it is happening, you are not going to make a change, you don’t know what change to make. When it comes to domestic violence, they are not saying how that should be handled. The people pushing this movement are just ignoring this fact. We want to know exactly how domestic violence cases will be handled.

So, if people are making money off the family court and domestic violence, do you think they are going to give that up? 

Hell, no they are not. So, nothing is changing in this 50/50 movement. Let’s look at a week. Mom has custody and works, and the child goes to school. They get home and spend about three hours. Showers, homework, and getting ready for the next day. Did mom really get a lot of time with the child? No! she did not. The weekend comes, and they do fun things etc. So, dads are fighting so they can have three hours a night to clean and do homework? They are jealous because mom has an extra 12 hours a week to work her ass off! I get spending time with your children and being there. Some dads also get their children on Wednesday as well. So, does all this just come down to child support?

Judges gain kickback on how much child support they bring into the courts. The kickback goes to their 401K. Some parents pay so much money for child support, they can’t live. If you don’t charge enough support, the mother then must live on the system and we don’t want that. So maybe there needs to be cheaper housing for non-custodial parents and lower child support. Should that be what we are fighting for? 

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